After 7 months of working as a bra fitting specialist, I have become very good at my job. I have learned a lot about bras, bodies, and peoples’ reactions, and I’d like to share what I’ve come to know. Keep in mind: this is not the ‘be all, end all’, and I am not an aficionado. I am simply one woman hoping to change a few lives with some important info. There is no standardization in the bra industry. Big American stores do sizing very differently than specialty stores. At La
Hey Adults, When I was a teenager I thought I knew everything about everything, as most teens do. I was so confident in my knowledge and flirtation skills that everyone thought I was having sex WAY before I really was. I remember being 16 and saying that I didn’t swallow without having a clue what that meant. I wish I had known more about sex and relationships before I started engaging in either, because I imagine my experiences would be totally different if I had been aware
People tend to ask me how I started, or ‘Why are you doing this? What is a sex educator?’ Well, the light bulb moment for me was at the very beginning of January 2013. I was an adult volunteering at a peace education camp in Ottawa, Canada for teens aged mostly 15-18. I’ve been going to this CISV winter camp since I myself was 15, and I am well aware of the incredible safe space created by the participants to discuss all manner of issues.
I decided that during the camp I wan
I would like to dispel the incredibly negative stigma surrounding fetishes. Growing up, most of us are taught that anything out of the ordinary is naughty, dirty, bad, and/or wrong; that liking something different makes us weird. I know this is what I learned. Everyone is into something; some of us are into lots of things. Think of anything and someone is probably into it. So, to begin, let’s go through some definitions of ‘fetish’ from different sources. Fetish, Merriam-Webs
There are a whole bunch of lil things I wish I had known earlier to make sex more enjoyable and safer for myself. That’s why I have decided to compile them here, in no particularly order. It should be said that the vast majority of these are for women. 1) Don’t pee before sex. A full bladder enhances the pleasure sensation of your orgasm. It will also increase the likelihood of squirting, or female ejaculation. (More on squirting in an upcoming blog post). 2) Pee immedi