Let's Talk About Sex & Relationships
Sex Ed Online
Saturday, September 25 - Saturday, December 18
(no class October 9)
12pm-1:30pm EST on Zoom
This is a small group (max 10) that will meet up every week to discuss ALL kinds of stuff to do with sex and relationships. We'll cover what is NOT covered in school, and what is most interesting for those in the group. (I'm not going to talk about flavoured lube or how to braid hair if no one in the group cares about them, for example).
I gamify tough concepts, host experiential learning sessions, and create a space where everyone feels comfortable sharing. Let's dispel shame and laugh about awkwardness. The more we talk about things that are taboo, and make us uncomfortable, the more easily we learn the skills to move through the discomfort in order to have new kinds of conversations. Intersectionality, and more!
Here are some of the things we will cover:
Emotional regulation aka how to handle mood swings and emotions
Healthy relationships: how do you know? What can it look like?
Toxic masculinity & femininity
How to confront conflicts
How to research --> finding helpful local resources
Group Agreements & Rules
Private details discussed in group stay within the group unless there is an admission of harm
All relationship and sexual orientations, all genders are welcome
Take care of yourself: eat, drink, take notes, turn off your camera, step away - whatever you need to feel safe. Though, please let me know in the chat or by email when lines are crossed and I'll do what I can to address the situation.
This group is sex positive, affirming, and open-minded. We are ready to learn new things, are open to the possibilities of difference, and can do hard things.
When I officially launch this program next spring, it will cost $300. But because I'll be asking you for lots of feedback to help me shape the program - plus a testimonial at the end! - you're getting a special price of $150CAD.
FOR ADULTS age 19+
If you can talk about sex, you can talk about anything. Having a safe place to chat about sex and relationships can lead to some major shifts. Let's dispel shame and increase comfort by sinking in to the juicy stuff that really matters to you.
Think of me as the cool aunt you can talk to about sex: Auntie Julia.
The Initial Session is a good place to start to determine what the client is hoping to discuss and if we are a good fit for one another. This is a 60-90 minute session.
Initial session: $38
1-session package: $ 75
3-session package: $ 205 ($68/session)
5-session package: $ 325 ($65/session)
CONVERSATIONS + HOMEWORK
If you opt for the homework version, I will give exercises and readings to be completed each week, based on our discussion from the week(s) prior. These may be given during the session, or within a couple of days of the session.
3-session package: $ 250 ($83/session)
5-session package: $ 350 ($75/session)
Sunday Night Sex Talks
Grab yourself your current favourite and/or boozy beverage and join me on Zoom for a group discussion about typically taboo subjects. We will meet once a month on Sunday evening at 7:00pmEST for 2 hours. Each session will start with a dance to get those juices flowing.
Annual Subscription: $500 (save $100)
Teen Slumber Parties
The Lowdown: Remember pre-COVID times when slumber parties were a thing that we could do? Many adults like myself have fond memories of sleepovers with friends in which we’d stay up for hours talking about all kinds of stuff.
So, here’s a 2-hour virtual safer space for teens to talk about whatever is on their minds in regards to sex and relationships. Scared to talk to the person you like? Think you’re not straight but you’re not sure? Labeled a slut and it's negatively impacting you? Zero interest in being in any kind of relationship? Wait, there’s more than one kind of relationship?! We can cover all of these and so much more. I facilitate the discussion based on participant information gathered ahead of time. After the chat, I will pass along any resources discussed within the Slumber Party.
4-6 people who know one another ($50/person)
4-6 strangers (I create the group; $60/person)
I offer these two options because sometimes it’s easier to talk to people who have limited background information about you, and other times it’s easier to have the support of people you regularly interact with. It’s your choice! Wearing publicly appropriate clothing is required. Pyjamas are encouraged.
Please note: These slumber parties are a riff off of Leah Carey’s incredible Adult PJ Parties, with her explicit awareness and permission. Parents, I HIGHLY recommend you attend a party. Thanks, Leah!
Work With Me
If you are ready to work with me or would like to connect about my services please fill out the form and I will get back to you within 48 hours or you can reach me at firstname.lastname@example.org.
In regards to finances: I am committed to equity and accessibility. If you feel drawn to working with me but feel that you cannot afford the pricing above, please get in touch. I can offer payment plans and sliding scale rates at this time.